It Takes A Village

Many of us know the African proverb, “it takes a village to raise a child.” As true as this statement is, it may be difficult to cultivate in today’s society. Many of us are over booked and have scattered schedules which makes it more difficult to spend time with immediate family. Imagine how much more difficult it would be to cultivate a larger family network to help us nurture and raise our children.  Making it that much more important to have multiple support systems.

The Village

The village could be your own personal community when simplified down to its most important element. This group of people can create a feeling support and connection. When we are apart of a community we feel accepted and like we have a team of reinforcements.

People are social beings that need communication and affection from one another.  Living in isolation has proved to be very damaging to our mental state. This is why having a village/community is critical for us to thrive. Studies show that close-knit neighborhoods experience lower rates of mental health issues. Proving that family and friend support is essential to the community and our youth.

Upbringings

When there is only one or two adult to raise a child it can be very difficult on the parents, caregivers and the children. But having multiple sources of nurturing can afford children the tenacity and courage they need to step outside of their comfort zone.

Stability

In today’s society we are often made to feel that we are supposed to have all the answers. But having a village can help with guiding us to the right answers. When our children are surrounded by adults in their community, they benefit from the different experiences and strengths that each adult has to offer. For example, there may be an adult that understands their sense of humor and another that provides concrete and practical life advice.

Assurance

As important as it is to teach children to be cautious, the reality is that most people are safe. Being apart of a village of trustworthy, dependable and supportive adults teaches children that the world can be a good place. Building trust and encouraging children to create deep and meaningful relationships with those around them.

Creating a Village

History shows us that religious and cultural traditions have created authentic villages. Combined with the necessity of reliance of each other solidified community bonds. In today’s society religious practices are not as divisive as they once were.  We are experiencing blending and crossing of cultures, religions and traditions, which allows people to come together better.  Now more than ever many people understand the importance of a strong community.

Surround Your Children with a Valuable Community

Creating a community is just as important as exposing your children to this Community. Put your children in educational environments that encourage community. Bring light to building meaningfulness around our community. At Philadelphia Family Voices, we promote sustainability that supports and assist with raising children and nurturing these relationships with our community, our peers, in our environment.  Let our village help you get all the support, assistance and information you need for your children.